when you expected the least, you'll feel better if you didn't reach your target. you'll feel better if it's more than you've expected.
recalled my 18th birthday. there ain't event. there ain't anything. only a surprise in the morning. and a normal window shopping trip. so sad can. when i expected something great to happen. it just doesn't turn out that way.
that's why for my birthday this year. a simple gathering is just splendid enough to make my day. so hee. meet ups! :p